Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Sunday, January 12, 2014

Collecting Faces: Ralph

Ralph led a difficult life, characterized by the deep set lines mapping his face. His hands were knobby and worn with evidence of callouses from holding the implements he used to garden. He loved gardening. Seeing the tiny shoots of new life breaking through the soft, dark earth seemed to him to be evidence of a fresh start to life. Watching the plant grow and then blossom into a full-blown flower gave Ralph a sense of completeness.

Ralph was wearing his old suspenders, as he always did. More than holding up his trousers, they also gave him a holding on point when talking to the passing neighbor. His shirt sleeves were rolled to midway between elbow and wrist. The red flannel was beginning to show wear at the cuffs, so he rolled them.

The hat he wore was encrusted with dust. At one time it had been a fancy black fedora. Now it showed the passage of years and the sweat stains of a hardworking man.

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Hidden Identity


            Dirty, crude, misshapen, the rock lay discarded on the ground. Many had picked it up, studied it, and then discarded it. Finally, still bruised from the elements, the rock was chosen by one who knew what it was really worth. Carefully, and patiently he spent time reshaping and polishing. There were some painful times for the rock. These times called for cutting, chipping and abrasiveness. Gradually, it took shape into an item of great beauty. Another had pretended to see past the dirt and roughness, but had merely used the rock for a paperweight on his way to somewhere else. The rock had yearned to become an object of great value to someone and had thought the job of paperweight might possibly be it, not realizing that there are millions of paperweights in the world and when a new one struck its owner’s fancy they discard the old. Not many people choose to spend the time and energy required to look for the gem beneath the surface. How many rocks are really valuable gems never discovered?
            We can easily overlook diamonds in the rough. Diamonds don’t come out of the ground looking like those we know to be diamonds with sparkle and expertly cut facets.  I’m sure many are passed over because they look like a dirty old rock. Diamonds are really coal submitted to extreme pressure. We would not consider wearing a coal ring, yet many show off their diamond rings with pride.
            People can appear to be like the dirty, misshapen rock , until we get to really know them.  There are times that a person is treated as if they have no value and it takes a special individual to discover the diamond within.  How many people have we stereotyped that, if we had spent the time to get to know them would have enriched our lives? Remember people too, can turn into diamonds when extreme pressure is exerted upon them. We should never use people like paperweights, using and discarding them when someone else comes along.

           

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

If I Could Live My Life Over

If I could live my life over. . .
     I would laugh more,
         cry more,
             love more,
                 reach out more,
                     dream more.
I would follow my dreams and passions with intensity.
I would live life with fervor,
     savoring each happiness
         learning from each sadness and regret.
I cannot begin my life again, but I can. . .
     Start with the moment at hand
          to learn from the past
              to LIVE in the present.